Dear creative mind,

Ever find yourself stuck in that "cringe" moment just before sharing your work with the world? The moment when vulnerability feels like a thick fog, and the thought of being seen—really seen—makes you want to retreat into the shadows? That moment when your creation feels too raw, too unrefined, too... you in a way that feels too much.

It’s tempting, I know, to run from it—to tuck your work away, to say "maybe later," to wait until you feel more comfortable. But here’s the truth: comfort doesn’t come in the way we expect.

You’re not broken for feeling this way. You’re human. And that’s exactly what the world needs to see.

Creating asks us to be brave. It asks us to stand in the messy middle, to share the imperfect beginnings, the hesitant steps, the unpolished thoughts. Yes, that can feel vulnerable—because it is. Our work is an extension of our hearts, minds, and souls. And when we share that, we’re not just offering art; we’re offering a piece of who we are.

So, what are you keeping hidden because of the cringe? What part of your work feels too much to share, but might actually be the thing that connects you most with others?

Remember: confidence isn’t the absence of fear—it’s the ability to create with it.

With care,
Pascale

A podcast episode to start building confidence, even when you’re not sure you’re ready.

Criticism can be tough to navigate, especially when it feels like it’s coming from all sides—whether from someone else or our own inner critic. Here’s a process to help you effectively ask for, receive, and handle criticism in a way that supports your growth and creative process.

1. Set boundaries

First, get clear with yourself about the parts of your work that feel solid and the areas where you’re open to growth. Ask yourself, “What am I ready to receive feedback on, and what am I confident in?”

2. Ask for specific feedback

Instead of a broad "What do you think?", get specific. For example, "What part of this resonates with you?" or "Is there a section you feel could be clearer?" It helps guide the conversation to what you're most curious about.

3. Listen with curiosity

When receiving feedback, notice how your body and mind respond. Pay attention to how you feel—what is asking to be protected in your work, and what is calling you to expand beyond your comfort zone?

If something feels unclear about the feedback, ask for clarification.

4. Evaluate and decide what to keep

Filter the feedback: Is it constructive and specific? Does it align with your vision or offer useful insights? You have the power to choose what serves your growth and what doesn’t. Be clear about your boundaries—only take what you need.

Listen to the meditation here.

Being visible in our creativity can feel scary, like we're putting ourselves out there to be judged or misunderstood. But what if instead of hiding, you took one small step to practice being visible?

This could look like:

• Sharing a work-in-progress photo, even if it’s imperfect, to show where you’re at

• Speaking one sentence out loud about your project, just to hear your voice and make it real

• Sending a quick message to someone about what you’re working on, no pressure to get it right

• Writing one sentence in your journal about your creative process, without worrying about how it sounds

• Posting something small on social media that shows you as you are, not needing it to be polished

Remember: You’re allowed to choose who you want to be vulnerable with and what parts of yourself you’re okay sharing. Take it at your own pace, and know that being seen is a choice—you can honor your boundaries while expanding your capacity to be visible.